put yourself first for him

Amun

You'll be faced with problems of all shapes and sizes
You're going to have to make a few compromises

Nodding at Sam's reluctance, Amun smiled. He wasn't going to press the bookmaker to talk before he was ready. When the redhead asked what the potter thought about the other man's appearance, though, the guild master grinned. "I could tell you yes, I think you're beautiful, but I have a feeling you'd just disagree with me again." He winked at the other man.

When Sam commented that he wasn't strong, Amun gave the redhead a once over. Then the potter set his broom aside and gestured for the other man to join the guild master at a table in the center of the room. "Alright, arm wrestling it is." He put his elbow on a corner and gestured for Sam to come.

"Not great," Amun agreed. Chuckling, he smiled. "Yes, I've got an idea. But it'll be a surprise. I'll come pick you up when it's ready, how's that sound?"

For now we're happy if not overjoyed
And we'll accept the things we cannot avoid