i am a brutally soft woman
Phoebe tilted her head, sensing Soh's discomfort. Though it meant reigning in her own amusement, she became more stoic. A mentor rather than a tormentor. She sipped her wine, nodding slowly at her concerns. Well, she wasn't going to like the answer to her question
"No one except Frey thenselves was ever good their first go around." she said, setting down her empty wine glass, ordered another, then clasped her hands in front of her. "It is all about trial and error, because everyone is different. The best advice I can give you is to have a drink before if you can, to calm your nerves and inhibitions. Let instinct take you. And if your partner makes you feel badly or self conscious by a bumble, end it right there. They don't deserve you."
"No one except Frey thenselves was ever good their first go around." she said, setting down her empty wine glass, ordered another, then clasped her hands in front of her. "It is all about trial and error, because everyone is different. The best advice I can give you is to have a drink before if you can, to calm your nerves and inhibitions. Let instinct take you. And if your partner makes you feel badly or self conscious by a bumble, end it right there. They don't deserve you."
