i am a brutally soft woman
Phoebe smiled as she watched the girl think. It was good for her to ponder these things now rather than be surprised in the moment. Preparation made the whole thing less overwhelming and scary. She nodded when Soh asked for the tea. "I'll prepare some and send it to you. You may notice that during your time of the month your flow is slower, but that is normal." she said preemptively, not wanting her to think something was wrong if it happened to her.
As for what she should be asking? "There are lots of things, like the anatomy, the technicalities of it all. But I can send you a few texts that can explain all of that." she said with a smile. "The best advice I can give is to consider if it is the right time, the right person, and the right place. And that you can always so no and stop at any time. Just because you start something doesn't mean you're obligated to finish if you're uncomfortable." she said.
As for what she should be asking? "There are lots of things, like the anatomy, the technicalities of it all. But I can send you a few texts that can explain all of that." she said with a smile. "The best advice I can give is to consider if it is the right time, the right person, and the right place. And that you can always so no and stop at any time. Just because you start something doesn't mean you're obligated to finish if you're uncomfortable." she said.
