WHY NO LOVE FOR THE ASCENDED?

I mean... In a way, yes, it helps? But doesn't take away from the fact that the character is still required to get in that situation at all. Or rather, I still have to deal with the reaction of both my character and the response of whoever's been bitten, and... I don't know. It's not that I can't write smut, I just don't feel comfortable with it being something I'm expected to do? Just because I choose to play one particular race.