Ask Connie Fidence

Connie,

I'm having issues with a relative. Something is obviously going on (and there's always something) with them, but no matter how many times I offer to help, they either shut me out or say there's nothing I can do.

Sometimes I don't even feel like a part of the family, or they don't want me around.

Save for bashing them over the head, what can I do?

Thank you. Any insight or advice is appreciated.
- Anonymous